Avyakt murli for Wednesday 28 November 1979

⁰> > 18/10/98 Om Shanti Avyakt BapDada Madhuban 28/11/79

¹How to remain free whilst living at home with your family.

²Today, BapDada was seeing a particularly special group of His long­lost and now­found children of the previous kalpa. ³Out of multimillions, they are the few from the handful who know the Father and claim their inheritance from Him.

⁴Which group would that be?

⁵Today, Baba was specially observing the children who live at home with their family.

⁶He also observed the homes of all the families. ⁷He looked at the places where they interact with one another.

⁸Whilst observing the families, Baba also saw what influences there are of the impure elements and the adverse situations, and what influences there are of the kingdom.

⁹Whilst observing this, Baba also saw the wonders of some children, of how they remained unattached whilst living at home with their families.

¹⁰Those who can balance their freedom with their family life are playing a very good and elevated part.

¹¹They play their part very well with Baba as their constant Companion and by remaining detached observers, they have become examples in front of the world.

¹²Because they constantly stay under the canopy of protection of Baba’s remembrance, they remain constantly protected from any type of war that Maya can wage and any type of Maya’s attractions.

¹³When Baba sees such spiritual and special children, He constantly sings songs of their praise.

¹⁴Baba also saw some other children who live at home with their family.

¹⁵Because the children have an honest heart, the Lord is always pleased with them.

¹⁶Because they know the secret of remaining loving and detached, they are always happy with themselves and also keep their families happy.

¹⁷BapDada too is always happy with them.

¹⁸Children who are raazyukt (one who understands all secrets) and who constantly keep themselves and everyone else happy don’t need to hire a counsellor (kaazi) either for themselves or for others. ¹⁹They have nocase in which they would need to have a counsellor.

²⁰Many times, you would have heard the saying: “When the husband and wife are happy together, what can a third person do?” You must have experienced many cases where your own sanskars argue with yourself; where they keep a debate going on within yourself. “Is this right or wrong? ²¹Should this happen or not?

²²How far should this happen?” This debate would constantly go on inside you. ²³When you are not able to decide for yourself, you have to make someone else your officer.

²⁴For some, it would be for a small matter and for others, it would be for a big matter.

²⁵However, if you and the Father were to make the decision together, everything would be finished within a second, and there would then be no need to have a counsellor, a judge or a lawyer.

²⁶One of the laws of a family is that when something happens in a family, the parents would not allow the news of it to reach their children.

²⁷They would discuss it amongst themselves, and they bury it or accommodate it within themselves. ²⁸If the news of the situation reached a third person, it would definitely spread, and the more something spreads, the more damage it causes.

²⁹The more a physical fire spreads, the more damage it would cause.

³⁰All these small matters are like fires of the different vices.

³¹A fire would be extinguished there and then, and not allowed to spread.

³²In your family, only you and the Father should know about anything that happens; it should not reach a third person even though that one may be close, and even within the family.

³³Husband and wife should become happy with one another. ³⁴To become upset (naraaz) is the result of not knowing the secret (raaz).

³⁵It is when you haven’t understood the secrets of knowledge that you become upset, either with yourself or with others.

³⁶When you hire a lawyer, a small matter becomes a big case.

³⁷Therefore, to relate anything to a third person means to spread the things of your own household outside.

³⁸In the world nowadays, all the big legal cases are printed in the newspapers.

³⁹Here too, they appear in the newspapers of the Brahmin family. ⁴⁰Therefore, why don’t you resolve it between yourselves? ⁴¹Between just you and the Father, no third person should know anything of it.

⁴²Some children have a thought that reaches Baba.

⁴³They think that it’s fine for Husband and wife to settle everything, but sometimes, because the Husband is incorporeal and the wife is corporeal, they don’t get on so well, and this is why sometimes there is a meeting and sometimes there isn’t.

⁴⁴Sometimes, the heart­to­heart conversation reaches Baba and sometimes it doesn’t, that is, sometimes you don’t receive anyresponse, and this is why you have to have a counsellor.

⁴⁵However, you have found the Husband who has many forms.

⁴⁶Whatever form you want Him to have, He can present Himself within a second in front of you in that form. ⁴⁷However, you too have to become equal to the Father and adopt many forms.

⁴⁸Baba can make you fly and take you with Him to the subtle region within a second. ⁴⁹Baba comes from the incorporeal world into the subtle world, and so you too can come from the corporeal to the subtle world.

⁵⁰At least reach the venue! ⁵¹The venue also has to be beautiful.

⁵²The subtle region, the angelic region, is the venue.

⁵³The time for you is fixed; you’ve made theappointment; the venue is fixed; so, why does the meeting not take place?

⁵⁴The only mistake you make is that you want to take your clay with you.

⁵⁵Your body is clay.

⁵⁶When you have to work with your clay, then do so!

⁵⁷However, at the time of the meeting, you have to renounce the consciousness of your body, and put on the same dress as the Father wears.

⁵⁸You have to be equal.

⁵⁹Because Baba is incorporeal He adopts an angelic costume, and so the angelic one and the Incorporeal One together become BapDada. ⁶⁰You too have to put on your angelic dress and come here.

⁶¹Only when you wear your shiningdress will the meeting take place.

⁶²Do you not know how to put on thisdress?

⁶³As soon as you put on this dress, you can reach here. ⁶⁴This dress iswaterproof and fireproof against any form of Maya.

⁶⁵It has also been madeproof against the attitudes and vibrations of this old world.

⁶⁶You have been given such a beautifuldress, and yet you don’t put it on when you have your appointment!Do you love your old dress more?